The Lost Legacy

Millions of voices cried out yesterday at the passing of a single man. A man who had seen his own mortality and chose to live rather than exist.  Thousands copied and pasted a well known passage from a speech he gave

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure — these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. – Steve Jobs 1955 -2011

And for a moment they truly believed that they would carry on his message, his legacy, they felt it in their hearts and their bones. They too could do great things, just like he did.

Then the next day, or the day after, they wake up and the life continues as it had before. All thoughts of changing the world were gone as they opened the phone bill or drove the children to school. They forgot that he fought every day with his mortality, to be present and in the moment, to ensure that he contributed something amazing every…single…day.Steve Jobs

One of the overarching themes of this blog is that you CAN do what you want to do, but that it requires EFFORT on a daily basis. Trying to change the world on your first day is too much to even contemplate, so it’s quickly pushed from the mind.

Today do a tiny thing, one minute change that you will build on – every day. Think something new when you clean your teeth, or do something just before you close your eyes at night. One small step…and you are on your way to greatness.

With love

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Jump Juice #004 – Andrew McKee founder Personally Trained

Each week I interview a REAL someone who has successfully Made The Jump from day job to business bod. Meet Andrew Mckee,  founder of Personally Trained. Any questions? Add a comment below!

Before the Jump

andrew mckee personally trainedMy background is I grew up on Sydney’ Northern Beaches, well educated, come from a good solid family, both parents worked hard, provided idealic lifestyle for us. I left school and started working within 2 days. Always wanted to follow in my fathers footsteps of successful business career, wanted to be in leadership positions and enjoyed working amongst a strong team. My career started as a Junior Clerk in a National Business and progressed to a marketing role. From there I moved into a sales support role supporting on road sales people working for Optus in the start up days. My roles have always been sales support/sales/marketing focused. From there I moved to the video games industry and as sales rep on the road, then to National Account Manager managing retail business of $120million. After 3 years I moved into IT security sales working in the consumer division for multinational. I did this role for two different organisations culminating in the position of Sales Director for APAC managing entire consumer business. This role resulted in lots of travel, high pay and very little down time. Being constantly away for work it made it very difficult to keep relationships, not limited to just a partner but also friends and family. For the majority of my career I loved what I did, I loved the people I worked with, the customers I had and the results that I achieved. I have worked for some big brands – Optus, Electronic Arts, Sony PlayStation, McAfee and Zone Alarm. I enjoyed my roles in the later part of my corporate career because they were relationship based sales – not direct selling.

Why the Jump?

What prompted me to begin to consider changing was that with all the travel and the constant work I found I was doing was that my health deteriorated. My weight blew out to 146kg. I was on a flight to San Francisco and I had been upgraded to business class. I was so overweight I almost didn’t comfortably fit in the business class seat. That was the reality check I needed. I came home from that trip and enlisted the services of a personal trainer. I trained with him 3 days a week for 3 years and worked very hard to get my weight under control. I quickly realised it wasn’t just about exercising that I needed to fix it was also some psychological things I had to attend to as well. So he and I worked hard on both the physical and mental challenges and we achieved my goal which was 100kg. I started to the realise how much I was inspired by my trainer that I thought I would like to try my hand at training and have the same if not more impact on someone else. My work at ZoneAlarm had changed drastically. The company had made some decisions that I didn’t believe in and I was no longer enjoying the role so it seemed like a perfect time to leave and pursue what was going to make me happy. It took 6 months after I left ZoneALarm to complete my qualifications and start my business. I didn’t only leave corp I left the lifestyle behind too. I sold my $million property, my bmw and numerous other material possessions I has amassed over the years. It was a really cathartic experience.

The Business

My current business is called Personally Trained. It is an outdoor personal training company based on Sydneys northern beaches. I help people get fit, lose weight and rebuild themselves. Business has been up and running for just over a year and the business is doing well. I chose to open a PT business because I saw an opportunity as an ex corp high achiever who had let their health suffer due to their career that there is a market for trainers who were real people who had experience with the pressures of work, life and balancing everything. I had had trainers in the past who didn’t have the life experience and therefore I didn’t train with them for more that 6-12months. Most of my clients have been with me for a year and the new clients I am picking up are coming on as a result of reading my story, relating to it, being inspired by it and understand that I am a trainer who can make a difference for them as I have walked in similar footsteps to them. I chose this because I am passionate about helping people. After seeing the negative effects a corp career can have on an individual and a family I want to help others have been lives and as well help reduce the obesity epidemic in this country.

How Hard Was The Jump?

The transition was not too hard except adjusting to the lack of funds coming in to begin with. After 20 years of getting paid every month without fail to now having to collect money and budget weekly it was a little culture shock. But it has made me realise I am a lot happier with a lot less! Yes I was very fearful as I was not sure it was going to work or whether I was a good enough trainer but everyday I get validation from my clients how good they find the training is and I see the changes in them which for me is invaluable!

Best and Worst Things About The Jump?

Bes thing is being your own boss and being able to set everything up your own way. Not having to do things because someone else set it up or “coz that’s the way we do it” mentality you get in some large organisations. Worst thing is being the whole business and things sometimes fall through the cracks and you have no one to blame except yourself. Honestly there isn’t a worst thing, its the best thing I ever did!

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Living in a Fantasy Land

castle in the airMy father was bought up by his evil step-mother. Just like the Disney stories go (but this was no Disney story) she treated him badly and showed him no love. Sure it made him self sufficient – but when it came to passing on child rearing skills, it sucked big time. As his eldest child I was the first to experience his ideas about child rearing and to escape what all  of that meant, I created and lived in a rich and involving fantasy life.  Every day I hoped a kindly stranger, a prince on a white horse, a fairy godmother, SOMEBODY would come and save me because I had no idea how to save myself.

So I understand completely if you have come online to find a SOMEBODY to help you out of your troubles. Absolutely understand. Been there, lived every moment of it.

The thing is, you know deep down inside the real answer to your problem is (and always will be) YOU.

I couldn’t change my father and his terrible temper (old age and illness did that) but I could get the hell out of Dodge and start my own life based on never repeating the same mistakes he did.

If you have come to the internet to find you way out of your job because you hate it then that’s a start, you have made one step forward. You have gone further than just crying into your pillow at night or sharing your pain with your friends for the 50 millionth time while they nod and wish you would shut-the-hell-up.

But coming to the internet is NOT ENOUGH. It’s a tiny, baby, step forward, and that’s not the hardest step either, so don’t kid yourself.  Usually that’s as far as most people go because somehow their fantasy world tells them that changing their life is an easy painless (and quick!) process.

You want to leave your job and start a business?  YOU will need to leave your fantasy world altogether and strike out in a future that you create… and that takes WORK , a lot of work.

Over to you

One step further – what things have you done because of your fantasy world?  I spent probably a year flapping my arms up and down “thinking” before actually doing something about getting out of my job…what about you?

Lotsa love

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Jump Juice #003 Jenny Towers founder of Customer Service Specialists

Each week I interview a REAL someone who has successfully Made The Jump from day job to business bod. Meet Jenny Towers, owner and head trainer at Customer Service Specialists. Any questions? Add a comment below! Before The Jump My last job that I had before branching out on own was working as an Area Sales…

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Jump Juice #002 – Laura Trotta founder of Sustainababy

Each week I interview a REAL someone who has successfully Made The Jump from day job to business bod. Meet Laura Trotta, founder of the eco friendly baby site Sustainababy.. Any questions? Add a comment below! Before The Jump I have a strong background in engineering and have worked for over 11 years in the…

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  1. Laura
    September 21, 2011 | 11:19 am

    Thanks for the profile Allison and best of luck with Made the Jump!

    • Allison
      September 21, 2011 | 11:26 am

      Thanks Laura – your story is an inspiration to all!

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    September 22, 2011 | 7:28 am

    Very interesting story thanks for sharing us

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If This Was Easy Everyone Would Be Doing It

he white swans tip toe across the stage in unison. Their toes pointed and arms raised high. Their famous tulle costumes giving them the air of dancing straight out of an Edgar Degas painting. Fascinated, you walk down the aisle to get close to this amazing display of grace and beauty. In your mind’s eye you can picture yourself…

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Can I Give You A Dollar?

he man walks up to you in a busy street and says “Do you want some money?”, on his shirt is emblazoned FREE MONEY, and he is holding out $1 right at you. In your mind you hear the little voice (yeah the one we all have that thinks it’s stopping us from getting killed),…

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Jump Juice #001 – Chris Sonjeow Co-Founder LoveBook Online

Each week I interview a REAL someone who has successfully Made The Jump from day job to business bod. Meet Chris Sonjeow, CMO for LoveBook Online. Any questions? Add a comment below! Before The Jump When I graduated from the Art Institute of Pittsburgh in 2001, the idea was to ‘build your portfolio, build your…

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The Secrets (To Successfully Leave Your Job & Start Your Own Business)

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B+ Positive

take some mad delight that optimism runs through my very veins. Literally. My blood type is B Positive, and only 8 in 100 people have that same blood type. This is the reason why I have been able to throw in a 6 figure job and live the life of my dreams. Of course this…

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How Do I Quit My Corporate Job And Start My Own Business?

he hands me a skim milk decaf latte (commonly known as a”why bother”) and hesitates ”I see you in here a lot working. Can I ask what do you do?”. In the city no one would probably blink an eye about someone working on a laptop in a coffee shop, but this is the country, in a…

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  1. Steve Roy
    September 6, 2011 | 1:57 am

    Hey Allison,
    When did you start this site? Looks good so far!I do love your message and I’m sooooo looking forward to working together.

    Thanks again

    • Allison
      September 6, 2011 | 2:34 am

      Hi Steve

      Thanks for dropping by :D The site doesn’t officially open for another week and so is a work in progress at the moment ( got 30+ interviews to format and put up yet phew!). But its not exactly in stealth mode either.
      Ditto re working together and helping flick the “on” switch!

      Allison

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